Movies, TV shows, and social media often paint a picture of college that isn’t always accurate. From having your entire future planned to instantly finding your best friends, it’s easy to develop expectations that don’t match reality. In a recent episode of Countdown2College, Gage spoke with Dr. Sophia McDermott, dean of student engagement at Hastings College, about common college myths and what students can really expect.

Do I need to have my future figured out before college?

One of the biggest misconceptions about college is that students need to know exactly what they want to study and what career they want to pursue before classes even begin. Dr. McDermott explained that college is a time to explore new interests and discover what path is right for you. While some students arrive with a clear plan, many change majors or career goals along the way, and that’s completely normal.

Is college coursework as intimidating as people say?

College classes are often more challenging than high school, but not just because of the workload. Students are encouraged to think more critically, explore different perspectives, and apply what they learn in new ways. While longer papers and bigger projects may seem intimidating at first, these experiences build skills that will benefit students long after graduation.

Are college professors really that scary?

Many students worry that college professors will be unapproachable or intimidating. The reality is that professors want their students to succeed and will go the extra mile to ensure they do. The vast majority are passionate about helping students learn. Asking questions, seeking help during office hours, and building relationships with professors can make a big difference throughout college.

Will my college experience look like what I see on social media?

Social media, TV shows, and movies often suggest there’s only one “right” college experience, but every student’s journey is different. Whether you’re involved in clubs, athletics, campus events, or simply focusing on academics, your experience should reflect your own interests and goals. Focus on creating the college experience that’s right for you.

How do I make friends in college?

Many students worry they’ll either make friends immediately or not at all. The reality is that building friendships takes time. You’ll meet people through residence halls, classes, orientation, clubs, campus jobs, and shared interests. Since everyone is adjusting to a new environment, patience is important. Meaningful friendships often develop naturally as you become more involved in campus life.

What surprises students most about college life?

One of the biggest adjustments is learning how to manage your own schedule. Unlike in high school, you have a lot more flexibility in how you spend your time. But that freedom comes with responsibility. Creating routines, staying organized, and balancing classes, work, studying, and personal time will help you succeed.

What should I know about choosing a major and paying for college?

Many students believe choosing a major is a permanent decision, but that’s rarely the case. As students discover new interests and career possibilities, it’s common to change majors or adjust plans. Dr. McDermott also encouraged families not to assume college is financially out of reach. Completing the FAFSA, searching for scholarships, and asking financial aid offices about available opportunities can help make college more affordable.

What should every future college student know?

• It’s okay if you don’t have your future figured out.
• Changing your major is more common than you think.
• Professors are there to help you learn.
• Friendships take time to develop.
• Your college experience will be unique to you.
• Ask questions and use campus resources.

What’s the biggest takeaway?

Dr. McDermott’s biggest and best piece of advice is to stay open to new experiences. Try something outside your comfort zone, meet new people, and don’t be afraid to make mistakes along the way. College is about more than earning a degree. It’s an opportunity to grow, build relationships, and discover new opportunities. Even when things don’t go as planned, those experiences often become the moments where you learn the most.