College comes with a steep learning curve—one I didn’t fully expect until I was living it. As a recent college graduate and now a Content Creation Specialist at EducationQuest, I was interviewed by a colleague to reflect on my college experience. From navigating class schedules to avoiding burnout, I shared the biggest lessons I learned—and the things I wish someone had told me before I ever set foot on campus.

What surprised you the most about transitioning from high school to college?

The biggest shock was realizing just how much independence college gives you. In high school, people help you schedule, remind you of deadlines, and make sure you’re where you need to be. In college, it’s all on you. You pick your own classes and manage your own time.

Professors aren’t going to chase you down if you’re falling behind. It’s up to you to ask questions and show up.

What’s something about college classes you wish you’d known earlier?

Professors actually want to see you succeed, but you have to be the one to speak up. Going to office hours isn’t just for emergencies; it’s a great way to build relationships with your professors, which will help you in the long run.

Taking good notes is important, too. You might’ve been able to skate by without studying in high school, but college is a whole new world. Find a system that works for you and stick with it.

Looking back, what mattered most during your college years?

Relationships mattered the most. The connections with friends and professors. Networking opens doors, and those connections can help you long after graduation.

Hands-on experience, like internships and activities tied to your major, is also really valuable.

And don’t underestimate the importance of rest. Make sure you sneak in some morning meditations or afternoon naps. Burnout is real, and it’s not going to help you succeed.

What would you have done differently?

I wish I had researched my general education classes better. One misstep was signing up for an advanced astronomy course without realizing how tough it would be. You can ask upperclassmen what classes they took or search online for reviews of classes and professors.

I also would’ve joined more clubs, not just ones related to my major. That said, there’s no point in having regrets! Even tough experiences teach you something.

Was there one small decision that made a huge impact?

Yes. Taking a marketing internship outside of my major changed everything! It opened the door to a career in social media and marketing. Just because you major in one thing doesn’t mean that’s your only path. Skills and experiences can take you in unexpected, but great, directions.

Do you think college lived up to the “best years of your life” hype?

College was great, but I’m sure it’s far from the peak of my life. There’s so much ahead, and I feel like I’ve already grown a lot outside of college. I’m grateful for all my experiences and connections from college, but there’s still so much more life to experience.

How does college look different now that you’re working full time?

Looking back, a lot of the stress seems unnecessary. I think I would work myself up sometimes, but those hard tests or experiences really helped me grow.

I’ve also realized that college really is the start of “adulting.” I had to start paying rent, managing my time, and balancing all my responsibilities. Learning those skills early made post-graduation life less overwhelming.

What advice would you give to incoming freshmen?

Don’t try to have the “perfect” college experience. It doesn’t exist! Focus on the present and make the most of what’s in front of you. There will be challenges, but there will also be some really great moments that turn into lifelong memories.

What advice do you wish you’d received about life AFTER college?

You’ll miss the structure of college more than you think. Start building good habits while you’re still in school. Little routines will help make the post-graduation transition easier. And stay open to opportunities, even if they don’t perfectly align with your major.

Final Thoughts

College isn’t something you can fully prepare for, and that’s kind of the point. It’s supposed to challenge you. What matters most isn’t having a “perfect” experience. It’s what you learn, who you meet, and how you grow from it.

By Gage Boardman