When it comes to college planning, students and parents often see things from different perspectives. In a recent episode of Countdown2College, host Gage Boardman talked with EducationQuest Director of College Planning andOutreach Stacy Seim and her daughter, Kyleigh, a senior at the University of Nebraska–Lincoln, about their experiences navigating the college journey together.

Their conversation highlighted an important reality: while students and parents may focus on different concerns, they share the same goal—helping students find a college where they can succeed.

What makes a college the right fit?

For Kyleigh, choosing a college was about finding a place with strong academics, a welcoming campus community, and a great architecture program. Visiting campuses helped her compare options and discover where she felt most comfortable. From a parent’s perspective, Stacy focused on opportunities after graduation and whether a college would help students reach their career goals. The best college fit often comes from balancing academic interests, career preparation, campus culture, and personal preferences.

Why is cost such a big factor?

College is a major investment, so affordability matters for both students and parents. Stacy emphasized making financially realistic decisions, while Kyleigh saw how scholarships and financial aid made more opportunities possible. Understanding costs early can help families make informed choices and avoid unnecessary debt.

What college costs often surprise families?

Tuition and housing usually get the most attention, but many other college expenses can add up throughout the year. Common surprise costs include:

• Books and course materials.
• Computers and technology.
• Major-specific supplies and equipment.
• Campus activities and events.
• Travel and personal expenses.

Planning for these costs can help students stay on budget and reduce stress during the school year.

What do students and parents worry about most?

Many students worry about making friends, finding their place on campus, and adjusting to a new environment. Parents often worry about whether their student is prepared to manage responsibilities, make good decisions, and live independently. Although these concerns are different, they all center on one thing: helping students make a successful transition to college life.

Why is communication important?

One of the biggest takeaways from Stacy and Kyleigh’s conversation was the value of open communication. Honest conversations about finances, academics, expectations, and challenges can help students and parents work together throughout the college process. College is a major transition for the entire family, and staying connected can make that transition smoother.

Does every student follow the same path to college?

Not at all! Some students know exactly what they want to study, while others are still exploring their interests. Plans may change during high school or even during college, and that’s okay. Every student’s journey is different. The key is finding a path that matches your goals, interests, and needs.

What advice would you give to future college students?

Both Stacy and Kyleigh offered the same message: don’t let the college process overwhelm you. Take it one step at a time, ask questions, and take advantage of opportunities to learn more about your options. Most importantly, remember that there is no “perfect” path. With thoughtful planning and support, you can find the college experience that’s right for you.